500 Secrets About Girls

181) “For me, there’s really no need to use any magical pickup lines. Just a simple hi or hello, and an interest to know me as a person is sufficient to break the ice. I prefer to be around with a guy who is relaxed, and who makes sure that I’m relaxed too. It’s better if he’s not somebody trying to be anybody.”

182) “If you are friendly, easy-going, and approachable, you’ll make a lot of friends! If you like a girl, it’s really unnecessary to do anything extra or be somebody different, just be in your normal self – the friendly, easy-going, and approachable person you are – and you start off by making friends with her, and getting to know her better. No expectations from her, and no expectations from yourself. And if she’s not responding, forget about her, she’s even not worth being a friend!”

183) “I’m attracted to the guy who is beautiful on the inside; that is very important to me. If he’s beautiful on the inside, he’s beautiful and attractive on the outside. It just shines through – his attitude, his self esteem, his confidence!”

184) “It’s not necessary how he looks or what he is wearing, if he is comfortable and relaxed with what’s he’s wearing, whether it’s a suit or a pair of shorts, he radiates an air of cheerfulness, positiveness, and an irresistible magnetism!”

185) “I think when girls are attracted to his real person, his personality, the looks become attractive! I guess this explains why some girls are attracted to other girls! It’s definitely not because of the looks and physique alone, but it has got something to do with their personality and character. Most of us are attracted to those inner qualities which we wish we possess in ourselves!”

186) “Looks are important, but it’s definitely not the deciding factor for me when it comes to choosing a mate. Years ago I fell in love with a man. There was something in him which attracted me to him – his self confidence, independence, sensitivity, and, his touch! When I did some self-reflection recently, I realized I’m attracted to those inner qualities which he possessed; that which I wished I had in myself. So, guys, do not lose heart if you do not have that handsome good looks or macho body, your character counts! I’ve now been with my boyfriend for 3 years we currently have a great relationship; I must say I’m more attracted to his attitude and how he carries himself.”

187) “Often if the guy who is interested in me preserve in his effort to capture my heart, I tend to believe that he’s really sincere and trustworthy.”

188) “When I like a guy, I would rather he makes the first move, to come up and talk, just being friendly. But, I would play it cool and not act too interested! So, it doesn’t mean I don’t like you, or I’m not interested!”

189) “The more I’m interested in you, the more I may pretend that I’m not, or that I don’t really care! So, what I really want to see is that you preserve in your effort in winning over my heart!”

190) “What turns me off on a first date is he just keeps talking about himself, his life and his family!”

191) “I wish I didn’t go for our first date. He just smashed my good impression of him. He’s handsome, but he stinks!”

192) “He talks too much of his feelings, and ends up interrupting me. He never bothers to listen. I just can’t imagine going out with such a guy again.”

193) “I just cannot understand why he keeps talking himself and how he feels all night during that dinner. I would rather he discusses a common interest BOTH of us has, talking about a topic BOTH of us would grow and benefit from.”

194) “I’m turned off by the guy who exaggerated his achievements and who he really was. And if he lied one time, that’s it. It would be the last time I would ever go out with him again. To attract me he has got to be honest and true to himself. If he lies one time, there’ll be a second time. And the last thing I want in a relationship is being kept in the dark when he had another woman in his life.”

195) “If I find out something he said that was not true or even not quite right, that’s it. He won’t get a second chance ever again.”

196) “If you realize that a girl puts love first, and how important you are to her, you’ll understand why you’ll never be given a second thought if you lie to her just once!”

197) “Any guy who is too full of himself and who brags about how many girls he has successfully dated in the past, is an instant turnoff.”

198) “The guy who can attract me is the one who doesn’t have unhealthy lifestyle or habits, such as drinking too much or smoking.”

199) “I would want my man to flirt with me and only me!”

200) “To attract me, you shouldn’t be talking about what you think or believe that I want or like! If you are not sure, put on your thinking caps and find out what your girl likes to do or likes to talk about!”

201) “The guy I dated is a bookworm, and there was one time when he asked me if I could accompany him to the library as he was working on his research paper. I suggested that both of us go for a movie I had been longing to see after visiting the library, and he agreed. I ended up helping him search for all the books he wanted, and we spent some time in the library working on his paper. When it was nearly time to go for the movie, he suggested going on next Friday’s night. It was such a big disappointment for me. He got what he wanted and I had helped him. From that day onwards, I never wanted to talk to him or go out with him again. I just felt being cheated and lied to.”

202) “If you say you are going to call tonight, call me tonight!”

203) “On your dates with me, I would prefer you show genuine interest in me and my life. Ask me questions and listen to my answers with a keen interest. There’s really no need to offer solutions or your judgment regarding a certain topic. I like having a nice and good conversation together, that’s all.”

204) “What makes me happy is you try to become the man who put in your heart and soul to make me happy, and to let me know that I have your heart.”

205) “Try asking me about my day, before telling me about yours.”

206) “I’m attracted to the guy who is considerate, who makes sure I’m comfortable and relaxed first before attending to his needs.”

207) “I’m completely turned off by the guy who asks me if he should open doors for me! Oh gosh, there are certain things you need not have to ask, and I need not have to tell you. Just do it if you feel it’s appropriate and right. You’ll attract friends and girls if you are just being very polite and still able to be yourself!”

208) “I would love to secretly know that you have the date planned, and that you sincerely want both of us to be happy! No point if you are only doing it to impress me, I want you and myself to be happy too!”

209) “You need not have to sport a know-it-all attitude or to show off your money. If you plan a creative and fun date for both of us I can tell if you are sincerely and seriously interested in me. I’m interested in your effort and heart. Not your money.”

210) “Any date is a nice date if both of us can enjoy ourselves and most importantly, have fun!”

211) “I would be impressed if he does all that a real man does – opening doors for me, pulling out the chair for me at the restaurant, helping me up some rocky and dangerous walkway, picking up things which I have accidentally dropped without me asking him to – in short, a very generous, caring and helpful guy would make a very generous, caring and helpful husband! This is important to me.”

212) “If he cares to walk me to my door, it shows he’s a caring person.”

213) “All girls still love the simple, small romantic gestures. They are NOT outdated, as what most guys believe:

• Bring a flower
• Give a handwritten card
• Send a handwritten love letter
• Give a handmade craft (girls love the challenge of trying to tell and know the person you are from the craft you make for her!)
• Hold her hand

214) “If he’s just nice to me, and cruel to a dog, I’ll know that he will not always be nice. And that’s it. He’ll have a lesser chance of winning over my heart.”

215) “I’ll be secretly jealous if he’s nice to another person, especially if it’s a girl; while at the same time, I’ll be impressed and attracted to him, as I like being with the guy who is caring, thoughtful and kind to the people around him!”

216) “I’ll like my mate to be a true gentleman – considerate, kind, thoughtful – not just during our dates, but always and forever.”

217) “If you are punctual for our dates, it tells me that you are dependable, and this is something important to me!”

218) “He doesn’t rush things. He’s patient, but affectionate at the same time. He’s touchy, but respects me. He’s sensitive to my feelings, yet strong at the same time. He’s just such a rare and unique guy who finds the right balance to make me happy.”

219) “Being able to plan and create a romantic date for myself and for my love interest makes me very happy!”

220) “My ex-boyfriend doesn’t like to make plans, not even for our trip for the coming holidays. When I try to get him to discuss and talk about making plans for the upcoming birthday treats for our parents, for a romantic getaway the coming weekend, for a short trip overseas, or even a simple thing such as going out for a movie and dinner the coming Friday, it always seems he doesn’t care a single bit. He just refuses to talk, saying there is no need to think too much about it, and complains that I’m being too inflexible and rigid.”

221) “It’s not because women are too controlling, manipulative or stubborn when they desire to plan something in advance. Many times than not, women love making plans and planning ahead because she cares to make certain events happen, and to make them an exciting and meaningful ones to make their loved ones happy.”

222) “It frustrates me when my man doesn’t seem to take an interest in what I’m planning for our dates together. It pains me when he breaks his promise and chooses to stay home instead of going out with me. Guys, wake up, and realize that girls take pride in planning ahead, and it’s a joy for her if you can spare some time to participate in the discussion with her to make whatever she desires a reality.”

223) “It’s definitely not that I’m trying to control my man’s time, but I love the feelings of having something good to look forward to.”

224) “Most guys usually don’t have the urge to ask for help or advice or even seek ways to improve on things, so one day there’s this guy coming along and we have a very nice conversation together. He shows an interest in me. He asks me for my opinions and feedback, and I’m there thinking, ‘wow, this guy is so different from the rest of the guys who are only thinking for themselves!’. He’s the only guy who gets my attention.”

225) “My husband often views my offer to help as being very intrusive and controlling, and many times he hurt my feelings without even realizing it. So, guys, if you want to attract a girl, change your perception and change your ways of looking at things. Many times it’s not that we are controlling or critical, it’s just that we want to be there for you, to be useful, and to help. We are concerned, and we’ll like to know how we can help, that’s all. If you are that rare guy who understands why girls are the ways they are, and can readily accept her offers of help or is all ears to her opinions and feedback, you’ll be able to get her interested in you with effortless effort!”

226) “Women are born to be nurturing and creative beings, which is why they are very sensitive to the feelings of other people. Whatever they do, they do not intend to disapprove of you or your behaviors, they just need to know that you appreciate their being there for you. Try the following. It could help you win over the woman of your dreams, helps you improve on your relationship with a woman, or even save a failing relationship.

• Realize that women love to plan, create, and improve on things.
• Allow her the space and freedom to contribute her opinions and feedback. Ask “So, what do you think?”, “Any ideas I can make it better?”, “Do you think this is nice?”, “What can we do to solve this problem?”
• She’ll be motivated to elaborate more and put on her thinking caps. Do not worry whether she has the time to share your burden or whether you’ll offend her if you don’t accept her suggestions or opinions. Remember that she’ll always find it a JOY to contribute her part! All she needs to know is that you appreciate her being around to help and contribute.
• If you know this secret of women, you’ll be tapping into her nurturing potential, and if you can react and response in an appropriate way that is comfortable to both of you, you’ll make her fall in love with you!

227) “I’ve been hurt and upset by many, many past relationships. And they all display the same patterns. After I’ve put in all the effort, time, and energy into a plan or project or purpose for myself and for my mate, he always reacts with the same annoyance, impatience, and even irritation. Well, it’s fine if he’s not happy with all the arrangements and plans I have made, but he can just let me know, discuss with me, and I can make all the necessary adjustments and changes so that he’ll be happy. There’s really no need to kick up a big fuss over it, or even show your annoyance and expecting me to know what’s wrong. So, nowadays, whenever my female friend come along and ask me of my opinions of a guy she is interested in, I’ll ask her to check with him if he holds this type of confusing attitude. If he is a man who cannot appreciates why a girl is the way she is, why a girl does things the ways she does, and if he never bothers to understand girls, then, she might as well dump him.”

228) “I think if you really see me as controlling, then I’ll be controlling. If you see me as being commanding and bossy, then I’ll be commanding and bossy. If you see me as being pushy, then I’ll be pushy. There’s really nothing I can do about it. All of these are dependent upon your mind, your interpretation. They do not come from outside; from others. They are created by you, by your own mind. And, it leads to the same result : a ruined relationship.”

229) “What I would like my man to know is that when I plan or suggest something for our relationship, I’m not trying to control him or ordering him to do things my ways (which he often interprets as such!), all I’m trying to is to come out with better ways of doing things, which is why I offer my suggestions and solutions. If he doesn’t like them, it’s fine with me, he can just tell me, and discuss with me, and I’ll respect his decision. But he shouldn’t accuse me of being controlling or commanding when I’m not! It’s NOT even in my consciousness to tell him what to do or demanding him to listen to me. If this goes on, I might as well shut up and be the dumb person in the house. Does he like this to happen?”

230) “To choose a guy over another one, I observe how he reacts and interacts with other people, especially how he treats his parents, his family, the people around me, my pet for example; in this way I get to know his character. If he treats his parents like crap, he’s probably going to treat me in the same way sooner or later, even though he’s very nice to me at this moment.”

231) “What if she rejects you? You’ll have no problem with it if you have trained yourself well to be able to think on a newer and higher level, to change your values and viewpoints to every undesirable event that occur in your life. If she rejects you and it hurts, I assure you it is not the bare fact of that rejection that hurts. The disappointment comes when your mind which adds something to that fact. It itself has not power whatsoever to hurt you in any way; it’s your mental addition that does the hurting. What does your mind add to it? It could be that you might think she looks down on you. It could be that you might think yourself as unattractive and lousy. Or you might think that here is just another instance how unlucky and unwanted you are. So, try this method: see the bare fact, don’t add to it. When your insight has grown, you’ll banish all your shyness and dissolve every disappointments or rejections by not mentally adding to your daily events. One day you’ll come to realize, there are, in fact, no disappointments in life, only events.

232) “Woman loves the attention from the one they love. Most men nowadays are impatient to give them the attention their women are yearning for. You need not have to crack your brains how to give your woman the attention she wants. Just listening to her and her stories is one of the best approaches to grow her love for you. If you are wooing this woman, encourage her to tell you of her hopes and dreams. There is no need to decide whether she is right or wrong in whatever she has to tell you. Just listen. If you are the only man whom can really listen to her and understand her, she’ll want you to be her man!”

233) “What attracts him to me? It’s not easy to make the right choice. All girls dream of getting the guy that they desire. I have to make my choice amongst a few of them! All of them are equally good, handsome looking, having a good career, possessing good habits. It was really hard to choose. Then one day, he (now my husband) popped up at my house with a big surprise for me and my beloved pet dog! He had planned a birthday bash for Milo that night! He is the only one I know who has ever done this for Milo; none of my close friends or family members even bothers about it. I choose him eventually. It’s sweet of him to be so thoughtful and kind. If he’s thoughtful and kind towards my dog, I know he will do the same towards me!” So guys, be nice to her family, friends, neighbors, and even her pets! It makes a big difference in how your girl thinks of you.

234) “Never keep her waiting for you for whatever reasons. Plan in advance so you’ll not be late. Being early tells her that the occasion is important to you, and that you take her seriously. It will tell your woman that her appointment is the number one thing in your mind no matter how busy or occupied you are.”

235) “Some of the best attraction techniques are made on the spur of the moment. So learn to be spontaneous, be generous in giving sincere hugs or physical touches at the right moment. This is what you do, do things which tells her that she is wanted, but do not advance any further than what is necessary. Show her respects, keep an appropriate distance – not too close, and yet not too far away; while at the same time give her cues that she is desired. Many girls love it, and most girls are hooked when they met their right guy who can do this with tact!”

236) “If you are fearful of her rejection during your dates with her, or scared of being hurt, just be mindful that women are just as fearful and nervous as you are! After all, women are not angels. If at times your woman seems to be cold, unfeeling, or distancing herself from you, be aware that at times they do certain puzzling things (which most men do not really understand, such as giving cold shoulders, etc.) to protect themselves from being hurt, or even from being rejected by you!

237) “I like to do character reading from the day I know him. It’s not really an intentional act, but I will just make a mental note of his attitudes, how he treats other people, how he behaves when certain things happen. I’ll look into the little things he does and reading bigger things into them, such as if someone accidentally pours a cup of coffee on him I’ll observe how he will react to that little accident. If he’s forgiving towards that person, I’ll know that he’ll make a forgiving husband. If he’s walking on a narrow lane behind a slow moving old lady, I’ll observe if he’s patient enough to follow behind the old woman, or he’ll push her aside and rush in front of her instead. We are going to live under the same roof for the rest of our lives you see. Being having to see each other every day for the rest of our life, I want to know if one day I make a little mistake would he be forgiving, understanding and patient towards me? Or he would be harsh on me?”

238) “If it gets too cold in the movie theatre, he’ll take off his jacket and give it to me. Even if I’m already wearing one, he’ll ask me to cover my legs with it. If I’m hungry, he’ll sneak in some food for me into the movie theatre. I’m thinking‘That’s very thoughtful of him!’ It’s his thoughtfulness which makes me fall in love with him!”

239) “What girls really want is romance! If you want this girl, give her what she wants. Some guys would freak out whenever they hear this word ‘romance’. You really need not have to crack your brains really hard or spend too much energy, time or money to know what you are doing is right. Many times, being romantic often means giving her the attention she wants. She just needs to feel that she is the number one woman, the sweetest, sexiest, prettiest, most wonderful woman in your heart. If you can find ways to continuously reinforce her beliefs, not only will you be able to attract her, but you’ll be able to keep her by your side for as long as you want! Does it cost a lot to be romantic? Not really:
1) Ask her how her day is
2) Tuck a friendly or love note using different methods and in different ways, telling her she is on your mind.
3) If she has offered her help in any of your projects, send her a note saying “You are the best!”
4) If she has made you some home made chicken soup, find ways to let her know “You are a wonderful person!”

240) “I have a friend whose boyfriend of 3 years was trying very hard to get her on a date with him, but didn’t really know whether she had any feelings for him or how to ask her out. One day, she received a very unique and pretty photo sticker from him in the letterbox. He had squeezed into a photo booth and captured a silly photo of himself with a dummy doll made out of a piece of cardboard besides him. On the top of the sticker near to the doll’s head he had had drawn an arrow and scribbled in his own handwriting: “Wish you were here with me! Free to come out for dinner tomorrow?” She couldn’t help laughing, but she was hooked, and accepted the date. Today, she still kept that photo sticker. It was her treasured possession. They had been friends for a year and had gotten to know each other in the same church. She never really noticed him much, until that special day when she received the photo sticker.”

241) “A guy I just got to know recently made a ceramic plate for me and it just warmed my heart! He loved pottery and made 3 unique plates with the words “You are special today!”, “Want to go out? Call me _”, “I like being with you!”. And on certain days he just sent these plates over to me with some home cooked food. When I almost finished eating, the hidden messages appeared! I was really thrilled the first time I received these. I mean, no one really bothers to go this far to make me happy!”

242) “My boyfriend of 5 years knows that I’m a sporty person, and one day he has a t-shirt custom made for me with a picture of 2 cartoon figures playing tennis and these words are embroidered – “You are special!”, with a note asking me out for a tennis date. I never stop loving him as I think he’s very special too! One, he does not give me what he thinks I like; he knows that I like tennis. Two, those words meant a lot to me! It gives me an idea how important I am in his life, and I love knowing it!”

243) “From young I have been observing how unkind and impatient my father is towards my mother. And I remember telling myself I’m not going to be with a guy who is impatient and hot tempered. If you want to attract me, I have to know that you are a very patient, loving and kind person.”

244) “Shows her that you care! For examples:

• Teach her how to write a webpage for her favorite pet.
• Teach her how to program the VCR.
• Teach her how to fish.
• Teach her to cook your secret recipe.

In short, don’t just offer the solutions. Teach her the solutions, even if it’s not easy to teach. Many other people are too impatient to teach or even show her how to do it; most just want to get it over and done with. You can win over her heart if you can be that some one different and special.

245) “If you take other people for granted after 2 hours, what’s is going to happen to me if I’m married to you after 3 years?”

246) “I think we girls like hand-made things, especially if you have made them yourself, I’ll appreciate them! Try to create a simple custom-made puzzle yourself, and hide these messages inside: ‘Ten Things I like about you.’ Give it to the girl you like on her graduation day, and let her piece the puzzles together that night! She’ll squeak with delight when she sees the hidden messages inside!”

247) “Most women are attracted to men who are strong but gentle. By strong I do not necessary mean physical strength, though it still plays an important part. Women love you to be self-reliant, independent, successful in whatever you have set your mind to do, confident of yourself, good self-esteem, with an air of I-don’t- really-care attitude, thus being in control of most situations and events in your life. In short, you are a manly man. It’s an irony, but the above qualities are what make most men appear cold, unfeeling, insensitive, and distanced. So, if you realize that most women love the gentle giant, that is, a manly man who is gentle, sensitive, and knowing how to pamper his woman and make her happy, you’ll know how to create your successful wooing strategy to win over the woman of your dreams.”

248) “Women love men who seem detached and attached at the same time. You seem to be living in a world of your own, and women admire you for your ability to keep your lives AND have a relationship at the same time. You don’t worry much; and seem to keep your feelings inside of you. To become such a ‘man’, you have to be complete in your body, mind and soul. You know how to have a divine life and keep a blissful relationship at the same time. All of these can be achieved if you would learn how to increase and cultivate your magnetic power and never ‘lose’ this important power whilst going into a relationship. If you can preserve your individuality, no matters what happens, you’ll find yourself able to attract and keep a true love, with effortless effort!”

249) “Learn the art and science of character reading, or tarot card reading. Strike up a conversation with the girl of your dreams in this topic. You’ll be surprised to find that most girls are interested in this area. In fact, many girls tend to believe in destiny and fate, and they are often interested to know who their soul mates are, how he will look like, what is his character, their compatibility with the type of guys they like, etc. They may not believe in these arts, but, it does not mean they are not interested to know more (about their future) if someone can give them‘expert’ guidance and insight!”

250) “The more seriously a girl wants you, the more you’ll have to wait until after marriage to have sex. Every girl likes her guy to be committed to her, and only her. It’s like a kind of agreement before she will have sex with you. You have to agree not to get intimate with other girls or date other people.”

251) “I’m turned off by the guy who wants sex right away. If I read that kind of intention right from the start during our dates, I’ll run away. I believe that the guy who can wait is the only one who can give true love and create a long lasting relationship with me.”

252) “I like to know that I’m secure, that the man of my dreams is not dating other girls behind my back. I want to feel proud of him, that he is a committed and responsible guy. If he is, I’ll be the envy of all my lady friends!”

253) “Don’t pester me about sex before I’m emotionally ready. If you really want me, and if you really want a honest relationship with me, you have to learn to wait and respect me!”

254) “Girls often want more commitment than what their guys are willing to give. Actually, it’s all about their definition of commitment. For girls, the ways you talk and behave give them important cues whether you are committed to them or not. Don’t ask why. Women put love first. This is what made them women. And don’t forget, they need reassurance every now and then. Many times, it will suffice just to tell them “I love you. You will always be my one and only.” Just saying this simple sentence will put most of them at ease, and stop their probing further or questioning you whether you truly and really love them.”

255) “I usually fight with my boyfriend about commitment. I hate it when he seems to be unusually quiet and withdrawn, and only knows how to say ‘There’s nothing wrong.’, when obviously I can sense that something is very wrong. Whenever he’s like that, I’ll feel very remorseful and frustrated, because it’s my belief that if he’s committed to me he’ll care enough to let me know what’s going on, and why is he like that, and I didn’t like to feel that I’m at fault that he’s behaving in such a cold and distanced manner. It’ll be good if he can tell me something like “Baby, I’m not in a very good mood now. But it has nothing to do with you. Give me some time and after I’ve settled my own issue I’ll come and talk to you ok.” Now, isn’t this better?”

256) “If I’m really serious to go into a relationship or even marriage, I’ll be constantly on the lookout for signs whether my partner is committed to me, or whether he lies.”

257) “Sometimes I wonder what’s the real secret behind those blissfully and happily married couples who can stay with each other for such a long, long time. It’s not easy. But recently I just read about one such couples and their story moved me. One was a famous artist paralyzed from the waist down, and the other one was a woman ten years younger than him. They met when she worked as a volunteer and they fell in love. She knew they would never have children. But she fell in love with him anyway, and they had been together for more than ten years. Now, what is their secret? The answer is simply this. He is still the same artist who is passionate about what he is doing for his life. And she is still the same thoughtful, caring and heart warming lady who volunteer to help those in need. They decided they didn’t need a man or woman in their lives to make themselves happy!”

258) “If you want me, ask me how you can commit to me in the way I want it. If you ask me, it shows that you are willing to try, to put in the effort.”

259) “You should be yourself right from the start, and be absolutely clear what you are getting yourself into! Know and understand how girls think and behave, and why they think and behave in the ways they often do. There’s a reason. It’s not accidental, and many times it’s not because they are manipulative or controlling. If you are going to marry a girl, know what you are getting yourself into. To become attached to another person, you have the responsibility to make this relationship with your girl work for both of you. If you give a girl all of your attention and affection during your dates with her, know that she’ll expect you to continue doing the same just as when you are dating and wooing her, even after marriage, because this is what she understands she is going to get from you right from the start.”

260) “If you want a long lasting and blissful relationship with your girl, don’t stop wooing and courting her even after going steady, or marriage. Think that you can only have her for today, and you’ll instantly feel that you have to treasure her and win her over and over again to keep her by your side!”

261) “I’m happily married to my husband of 18 years. Our secrets? Finding and engaging in a meaningful purpose for our life, never stop pursuing our passions. He told me he never saw himself as being attached to me because of our marriage; instead he kept wooing me each and every day, and every time he saw me he’ll find all ways and means to win me over!”

262) “I will want to be with the guy who is sensitive to who I am and what I like. I do not really fancy flowers, but I’ll be impressed if he gives me a bunch of roses just for once in my life!”

263) “A hidden note, a surprise home cooked favorite food or dessert brought all the way from home, a surprise visit; these are what will move my heart! It’s not so much of the objects, but that it lets me know that he’s thinking about me, and what I like! It’s his thoughtfulness that counts. This is one of my most memorable.