201) “The guy I dated is a bookworm, and there was one time when he asked me if I could accompany him to the library as he was working on his research paper. I suggested that both of us go for a movie I had been longing to see after visiting the library, and he agreed. I ended up helping him search for all the books he wanted, and we spent some time in the library working on his paper. When it was nearly time to go for the movie, he suggested going on next Friday’s night. It was such a big disappointment for me. He got what he wanted and I had helped him. From that day onwards, I never wanted to talk to him or go out with him again. I just felt being cheated and lied to.”
202) “If you say you are going to call tonight, call me tonight!”
203) “On your dates with me, I would prefer you show genuine interest in me and my life. Ask me questions and listen to my answers with a keen interest. There’s really no need to offer solutions or your judgment regarding a certain topic. I like having a nice and good conversation together, that’s all.”
204) “What makes me happy is you try to become the man who put in your heart and soul to make me happy, and to let me know that I have your heart.”
205) “Try asking me about my day, before telling me about yours.”
206) “I’m attracted to the guy who is considerate, who makes sure I’m comfortable and relaxed first before attending to his needs.”
207) “I’m completely turned off by the guy who asks me if he should open doors for me! Oh gosh, there are certain things you need not have to ask, and I need not have to tell you. Just do it if you feel it’s appropriate and right. You’ll attract friends and girls if you are just being very polite and still able to be yourself!”
208) “I would love to secretly know that you have the date planned, and that you sincerely want both of us to be happy! No point if you are only doing it to impress me, I want you and myself to be happy too!”
209) “You need not have to sport a know-it-all attitude or to show off your money. If you plan a creative and fun date for both of us I can tell if you are sincerely and seriously interested in me. I’m interested in your effort and heart. Not your money.”
210) “Any date is a nice date if both of us can enjoy ourselves and most importantly, have fun!”
211) “I would be impressed if he does all that a real man does – opening doors for me, pulling out the chair for me at the restaurant, helping me up some rocky and dangerous walkway, picking up things which I have accidentally dropped without me asking him to – in short, a very generous, caring and helpful guy would make a very generous, caring and helpful husband! This is important to me.”
212) “If he cares to walk me to my door, it shows he’s a caring person.”
213) “All girls still love the simple, small romantic gestures. They are NOT outdated, as what most guys believe:
- Bring a flower
- Give a handwritten card
- Send a handwritten love letter
- Give a handmade craft (girls love the challenge of trying to tell and know the person you are from the craft you make for her!)
- Hold her hand
214) “If he’s just nice to me, and cruel to a dog, I’ll know that he will not always be nice. And that’s it. He’ll have a lesser chance of winning over my heart.”
215) “I’ll be secretly jealous if he’s nice to another person, especially if it’s a girl; while at the same time, I’ll be impressed and attracted to him, as I like being with the guy who is caring, thoughtful and kind to the people around him!”
216) “I’ll like my mate to be a true gentleman – considerate, kind, thoughtful – not just during our dates, but always and forever.”
217) “If you are punctual for our dates, it tells me that you are dependable, and this is something important to me!”
218) “He doesn’t rush things. He’s patient, but affectionate at the same time. He’s touchy, but respects me. He’s sensitive to my feelings, yet strong at the same time. He’s just such a rare and unique guy who finds the right balance to make me happy.”
219) “Being able to plan and create a romantic date for myself and for my love interest makes me very happy!”
220) “My ex-boyfriend doesn’t like to make plans, not even for our trip for the coming holidays. When I try to get him to discuss and talk about making plans for the upcoming birthday treats for our parents, for a romantic getaway the coming weekend, for a short trip overseas, or even a simple thing such as going out for a movie and dinner the coming Friday, it always seems he doesn’t care a single bit. He just refuses to talk, saying there is no need to think too much about it, and complains that I’m being too inflexible and rigid.”