181) “For me, there’s really no need to use any magical pickup lines. Just a simple hi or hello, and an interest to know me as a person is sufficient to break the ice. I prefer to be around with a guy who is relaxed, and who makes sure that I’m relaxed too. It’s better if he’s not somebody trying to be anybody.”
182) “If you are friendly, easy-going, and approachable, you’ll make a lot of friends! If you like a girl, it’s really unnecessary to do anything extra or be somebody different, just be in your normal self – the friendly, easy-going, and approachable person you are – and you start off by making friends with her, and getting to know her better. No expectations from her, and no expectations from yourself. And if she’s not responding, forget about her, she’s even not worth being a friend!”
183) “I’m attracted to the guy who is beautiful on the inside; that is very important to me. If he’s beautiful on the inside, he’s beautiful and attractive on the outside. It just shines through – his attitude, his self esteem, his confidence!”
184) “It’s not necessary how he looks or what he is wearing, if he is comfortable and relaxed with what’s he’s wearing, whether it’s a suit or a pair of shorts, he radiates an air of cheerfulness, positiveness, and an irresistible magnetism!”
185) “I think when girls are attracted to his real person, his personality, the looks become attractive! I guess this explains why some girls are attracted to other girls! It’s definitely not because of the looks and physique alone, but it has got something to do with their personality and character. Most of us are attracted to those inner qualities which we wish we possess in ourselves!”
186) “Looks are important, but it’s definitely not the deciding factor for me when it comes to choosing a mate. Years ago I fell in love with a man. There was something in him which attracted me to him – his self confidence, independence, sensitivity, and, his touch! When I did some self-reflection recently, I realized I’m attracted to those inner qualities which he possessed; that which I wished I had in myself. So, guys, do not lose heart if you do not have that handsome good looks or macho body, your character counts! I’ve now been with my boyfriend for 3 years we currently have a great relationship; I must say I’m more attracted to his attitude and how he carries himself.”
187) “Often if the guy who is interested in me preserve in his effort to capture my heart, I tend to believe that he’s really sincere and trustworthy.”
188) “When I like a guy, I would rather he makes the first move, to come up and talk, just being friendly. But, I would play it cool and not act too interested! So, it doesn’t mean I don’t like you, or I’m not interested!”
189) “The more I’m interested in you, the more I may pretend that I’m not, or that I don’t really care! So, what I really want to see is that you preserve in your effort in winning over my heart!”
190) “What turns me off on a first date is he just keeps talking about himself, his life and his family!”
191) “I wish I didn’t go for our first date. He just smashed my good impression of him. He’s handsome, but he stinks!”
192) “He talks too much of his feelings, and ends up interrupting me. He never bothers to listen. I just can’t imagine going out with such a guy again.”
193) “I just cannot understand why he keeps talking himself and how he feels all night during that dinner. I would rather he discusses a common interest BOTH of us has, talking about a topic BOTH of us would grow and benefit from.”
194) “I’m turned off by the guy who exaggerated his achievements and who he really was. And if he lied one time, that’s it. It would be the last time I would ever go out with him again. To attract me he has got to be honest and true to himself. If he lies one time, there’ll be a second time. And the last thing I want in a relationship is being kept in the dark when he had another woman in his life.”
195) “If I find out something he said that was not true or even not quite right, that’s it. He won’t get a second chance ever again.”
196) “If you realize that a girl puts love first, and how important you are to her, you’ll understand why you’ll never be given a second thought if you lie to her just once!”
197) “Any guy who is too full of himself and who brags about how many girls he has successfully dated in the past, is an instant turnoff.”
198) “The guy who can attract me is the one who doesn’t have unhealthy lifestyle or habits, such as drinking too much or smoking.”
199) “I would want my man to flirt with me and only me!”
200) “To attract me, you shouldn’t be talking about what you think or believe that I want or like! If you are not sure, put on your thinking caps and find out what your girl likes to do or likes to talk about!”