241) “A guy I just got to know recently made a ceramic plate for me and it just warmed my heart! He loved pottery and made 3 unique plates with the words “You are special today!”, “Want to go out? Call me _”, “I like being with you!”. And on certain days he just sent these plates over to me with some home cooked food. When I almost finished eating, the hidden messages appeared! I was really thrilled the first time I received these. I mean, no one really bothers to go this far to make me happy!”
242) “My boyfriend of 5 years knows that I’m a sporty person, and one day he has a t-shirt custom made for me with a picture of 2 cartoon figures playing tennis and these words are embroidered – “You are special!”, with a note asking me out for a tennis date. I never stop loving him as I think he’s very special too! One, he does not give me what he thinks I like; he knows that I like tennis. Two, those words meant a lot to me! It gives me an idea how important I am in his life, and I love knowing it!”
243) “From young I have been observing how unkind and impatient my father is towards my mother. And I remember telling myself I’m not going to be with a guy who is impatient and hot tempered. If you want to attract me, I have to know that you are a very patient, loving and kind person.”
244) “Shows her that you care! For examples:
- Teach her how to write a webpage for her favorite pet.
- Teach her how to program the VCR.
- Teach her how to fish.
- Teach her to cook your secret recipe.
In short, don’t just offer the solutions. Teach her the solutions, even if it’s not easy to teach. Many other people are too impatient to teach or even show her how to do it; most just want to get it over and done with. You can win over her heart if you can be that some one different and special.
245) “If you take other people for granted after 2 hours, what’s is going to happen to me if I’m married to you after 3 years?”
246) “I think we girls like hand-made things, especially if you have made them yourself, I’ll appreciate them! Try to create a simple custom-made puzzle yourself, and hide these messages inside: ‘Ten Things I like about you.’ Give it to the girl you like on her graduation day, and let her piece the puzzles together that night! She’ll squeak with delight when she sees the hidden messages inside!”
247) “Most women are attracted to men who are strong but gentle. By strong I do not necessary mean physical strength, though it still plays an important part. Women love you to be self-reliant, independent, successful in whatever you have set your mind to do, confident of yourself, good self-esteem, with an air of I-don’t- really-care attitude, thus being in control of most situations and events in your life. In short, you are a manly man. It’s an irony, but the above qualities are what make most men appear cold, unfeeling, insensitive, and distanced. So, if you realize that most women love the gentle giant, that is, a manly man who is gentle, sensitive, and knowing how to pamper his woman and make her happy, you’ll know how to create your successful wooing strategy to win over the woman of your dreams.”
248) “Women love men who seem detached and attached at the same time. You seem to be living in a world of your own, and women admire you for your ability to keep your lives AND have a relationship at the same time. You don’t worry much; and seem to keep your feelings inside of you. To become such a ‘man’, you have to be complete in your body, mind and soul. You know how to have a divine life and keep a blissful relationship at the same time. All of these can be achieved if you would learn how to increase and cultivate your magnetic power and never ‘lose’ this important power whilst going into a relationship. If you can preserve your individuality, no matters what happens, you’ll find yourself able to attract and keep a true love, with effortless effort!”
249) “Learn the art and science of character reading, or tarot card reading. Strike up a conversation with the girl of your dreams in this topic. You’ll be surprised to find that most girls are interested in this area. In fact, many girls tend to believe in destiny and fate, and they are often interested to know who their soul mates are, how he will look like, what is his character, their compatibility with the type of guys they like, etc. They may not believe in these arts, but, it does not mean they are not interested to know more (about their future) if someone can give them‘expert’ guidance and insight!”
250) “The more seriously a girl wants you, the more you’ll have to wait until after marriage to have sex. Every girl likes her guy to be committed to her, and only her. It’s like a kind of agreement before she will have sex with you. You have to agree not to get intimate with other girls or date other people.”
251) “I’m turned off by the guy who wants sex right away. If I read that kind of intention right from the start during our dates, I’ll run away. I believe that the guy who can wait is the only one who can give true love and create a long lasting relationship with me.”
252) “I like to know that I’m secure, that the man of my dreams is not dating other girls behind my back. I want to feel proud of him, that he is a committed and responsible guy. If he is, I’ll be the envy of all my lady friends!”
253) “Don’t pester me about sex before I’m emotionally ready. If you really want me, and if you really want a honest relationship with me, you have to learn to wait and respect me!”
254) “Girls often want more commitment than what their guys are willing to give. Actually, it’s all about their definition of commitment. For girls, the ways you talk and behave give them important cues whether you are committed to them or not. Don’t ask why. Women put love first. This is what made them women. And don’t forget, they need reassurance every now and then. Many times, it will suffice just to tell them “I love you. You will always be my one and only.” Just saying this simple sentence will put most of them at ease, and stop their probing further or questioning you whether you truly and really love them.”
255) “I usually fight with my boyfriend about commitment. I hate it when he seems to be unusually quiet and withdrawn, and only knows how to say ‘There’s nothing wrong.’, when obviously I can sense that something is very wrong. Whenever he’s like that, I’ll feel very remorseful and frustrated, because it’s my belief that if he’s committed to me he’ll care enough to let me know what’s going on, and why is he like that, and I didn’t like to feel that I’m at fault that he’s behaving in such a cold and distanced manner. It’ll be good if he can tell me something like “Baby, I’m not in a very good mood now. But it has nothing to do with you. Give me some time and after I’ve settled my own issue I’ll come and talk to you ok.” Now, isn’t this better?”
256) “If I’m really serious to go into a relationship or even marriage, I’ll be constantly on the lookout for signs whether my partner is committed to me, or whether he lies.”
257) “Sometimes I wonder what’s the real secret behind those blissfully and happily married couples who can stay with each other for such a long, long time. It’s not easy. But recently I just read about one such couples and their story moved me. One was a famous artist paralyzed from the waist down, and the other one was a woman ten years younger than him. They met when she worked as a volunteer and they fell in love. She knew they would never have children. But she fell in love with him anyway, and they had been together for more than ten years. Now, what is their secret? The answer is simply this. He is still the same artist who is passionate about what he is doing for his life. And she is still the same thoughtful, caring and heart warming lady who volunteer to help those in need. They decided they didn’t need a man or woman in their lives to make themselves happy!”
258) “If you want me, ask me how you can commit to me in the way I want it. If you ask me, it shows that you are willing to try, to put in the effort.”
259) “You should be yourself right from the start, and be absolutely clear what you are getting yourself into! Know and understand how girls think and behave, and why they think and behave in the ways they often do. There’s a reason. It’s not accidental, and many times it’s not because they are manipulative or controlling. If you are going to marry a girl, know what you are getting yourself into. To become attached to another person, you have the responsibility to make this relationship with your girl work for both of you. If you give a girl all of your attention and affection during your dates with her, know that she’ll expect you to continue doing the same just as when you are dating and wooing her, even after marriage, because this is what she understands she is going to get from you right from the start.”
260) “If you want a long lasting and blissful relationship with your girl, don’t stop wooing and courting her even after going steady, or marriage. Think that you can only have her for today, and you’ll instantly feel that you have to treasure her and win her over and over again to keep her by your side!”
261) “I’m happily married to my husband of 18 years. Our secrets? Finding and engaging in a meaningful purpose for our life, never stop pursuing our passions. He told me he never saw himself as being attached to me because of our marriage; instead he kept wooing me each and every day, and every time he saw me he’ll find all ways and means to win me over!”
262) “I will want to be with the guy who is sensitive to who I am and what I like. I do not really fancy flowers, but I’ll be impressed if he gives me a bunch of roses just for once in my life!”
263) “A hidden note, a surprise home cooked favorite food or dessert brought all the way from home, a surprise visit; these are what will move my heart! It’s not so much of the objects, but that it lets me know that he’s thinking about me, and what I like! It’s his thoughtfulness that counts. This is one of my most memorable.