121) “If you want me, stop talking about your past relationships. And don’t ever give a hint of anything that has to do with your past relationships. I love to feel I’m number one in your heart.”
122) “If you promise me a date tonight be sure you keep your promise unless it’s really a life-and-death matter that you have to cancel the appointment. Perhaps guys do not really feel there is anything wrong with canceling an appointment but it matters a lot to girls, like me. If there is any reason that you need to cancel the appointment or date, try to involve me. Say if your mother has a fall and you need to rush back, ask me if I can come over to help, more often than not I’ll be most willing to get myself involved! So don’t treat me as you would treat a guy, I’m not a guy and certainly I cannot behave or think like one.”
123) “I’m turned off by the guy who turns up for our date not well groomed or smelling good. So, please check yourself before you come!”
124) “If you stink, don’t ever think of coming near me.”
125) “The guy who can attract me is the one who knows how to make me feel important about myself. Hey, doesn’t every one likes to feel important about themselves? I may be very selfish here, but, if you can make me feel important I would think you are some one special. However, if you keep talking about yourself and your achievement, blah, blah, blah, I be turned off instantly.”
126) “It’s the thought that counts! My man baked a cake the other day and I was thinking ‘wow, this can’t be happening. I mean, only women would do all these kitchen things.’ And he was so sweet that he told me he did it for me! It was not very tasty, but who cares! I just love his thoughtfulness.”
127) “He doesn’t like to be disturbed when he’s reading his papers. But in order that I would not feel lonely or left out, he read his papers while curling up besides me! I think that’s very thoughtful of him!”
128) “If you are too talkative, it shows you are arrogant.”
129) “I have chosen him because he’s with me and helps me not by doing something, but by being someone.”
130) “If you show me that your interests are merely sexual, that you only care about your needs and wants, especially the sexual ones, sorry, but I have to turn you away.”
131) “What turns me on is that he makes the effort to try to get to know me, the real me, and to get connected with me first, before he advances any further. This is good, as it shows that he respects me, that he allows time for me to get to know him first.”
132) “I like my man to stay fit and healthy, visit the gym often, and even encourage me to exercise with him on a regular basis. It shows that he cares to look good for me as well as for himself”
133) “He wrote me a love song, sang it into a cassette with his guitar, and though it’s not very good, but I love the effort he’s making!”
134) “I do not like the macho guy without a heart!”
135) “Show me you are loving, compassionate, considerate, kind person, and knows how to turn me on, and I’ll fall for you. What the point of having a handsome face, beautiful body, well defined and bulky muscles, when you make me cook your favorite dish even when I’m sick, or appears cold and uninterested to what I’m saying.”
136) “I’m turned off when you are too easy to get. Come on, give me some challenges, and let me know you are a treasure hard to come by, and you’ll have my whole attention.”
137) “If you want to attract the love of your life, think of yourself as the product in those brilliant sales copy, make yourself scarce, tell me what’s in it for me if I choose you over hundreds and hundreds of others out there, find a way to tell me that you are unique, that if I didn’t want you, some one else will, and I’ll be at the losing end. There, if you can do it, you’ll capture my heart!”
138) “I’m turned off my guys who keep bragging about themselves.”
139) “One guy caught my attention. After the party, he just grabbed a mop and started to clean the floor! Tell me, which guys would even care to do that! I’m secretly thinking to myself: ‘wow, this guy’s different. Any girl who has him is indeed lucky!’”
140) “You cannot be too overly nice! There’s this guy who’s wooing me and he’s too nice to me; I have a secret name for him – Mr Okay. He’s always doing things my way, taking care not to offend me, so much so that I just get this gut feeling that life would be very, very boring, monotonous, and unchallenging with him around! In the end, I leave him.”