101) “Girly things or gifts are not out of date! I may show that I do not fancy jewelries and pendant nowadays. But my heart is moved when he gives me a beautiful heart pendant.”
102) “I would love to be with the guy who can keep his promise. My ex- boyfriends are those types who keep their promises when they are wooing me, and after we have gone steady they forget all about it. They start to treat me like nothing, and they even thought I wouldn’t mind if they can just break a promise or two. Please, if you break a promise once that’s it. It tells something about you, that you are not really serious.”
103) “If he knows I’m sick and even takes leave from his work just to accompany me to the clinic, I know I can’t help but fall for this man.”
104) “Even if we are married, I would like my man to ask me (without my asking or reminding him) to go for a stroll hand-in-hand, whether it’s on the beach or in the garden (and just us alone!). It’s not boring for me. Girls like their guys to just be around.”
105) “I’ll love my guy to hide love notes for me to discover – in my books, laptop, inside the fridge, under my pillow, in my hands before I wake up!”
106) “If you are in debt or facing some problems, I would like you to know I’ll stick with you all the way, and if there’s anything I can do to help please let me know. You may be so engrossed in solving your own problems that many times I’ll feel neglected, left out, unworthy, or even useless. Don’t forget we girls tend to feel more, are emotional and sentimental. I’ll be even more moody, lethargic, and miserable if you are unhappy. So, pushing me away is not for my own good if that’s what you are thinking, nor are you saving me from any troubles or problems. I want to be involved, and I want to share the burden with you! Make me feel capable of doing it. Make me feel I’m not totally useless!”
107) “There are many things I can do to be involved. I’m not being bossy. But let me do something for you, even if you feel you can handle it. I like to feel I’m being appreciated. I like to know that you like me to be around for you.”
108) “Ask for my opinions. Ask for my help. Two brains are better than one. Don’t keep to yourself, and don’t vent your anger and frustrations. I cannot read what is going on in your mind. Even if I can’t do anything to help (if it’s beyond my knowledge or means), I like to know that you appreciate my presence, my being there for you. If not, you’ll make me feel I’m not needed or wanted. As a girl I don’t like to feel this way!”
109) “I’m turned off by the guy who keeps saying he cannot make it in his job, that he’s not good in anything, that he’s not earning enough. Please, that doesn’t make you very modest. On the contrary it does show you haven’t learn to love yourself, and one who doesn’t know how to love oneself cannot love others too! Before I left him, I told him: ‘Learn to love yourself first, before trying to find a mate.’”
110) “Don’t tell me that you want to be with me while at the same time you join a dating service. That’s not a sensible thing to do. I know you may like to get to know more friends and pals, but, it does tell other girls you are available, and, as a girl myself, even though I do not mind you mixing around with other people, I like to feel and know that I’m the most important person in your heart!”
111) “I like to be with the guy who will respect a woman, and who thinks we women have equal rights. I find such a guy very attractive, one who believes in women and what women can do, or even speak up for women!”
112) “I like the fact that guys aren’t petty and even if they get mad with their male friends, they’ll make up the next day and still remain buddies and best friends. But, guys, we are not your buddies, we’ll stay mad with you forever if you’ll want to make up without even apologizing. I think girls are more petty, and I definitely am. If I feel that I’m right I want my love interest to acknowledge it, and even if I’m wrong I don’t like my mate to make it so obvious that I’m wrong. As I have just said, we are not guys and we cannot think and behave like guys do. So, to please us and to pacify us you cannot behave as if nothing has gone wrong and that everything that has happened can be forgotten easily. What you can best do, I think, is acknowledge that something has gone wrong, don’t pretend that it can be easily forgotten for we’ll get very hurt. Acknowledge girls’ feelings and ability of being able to stay mad for as long as they want, and try to pacify them by giving them what they want. It makes things worse when a guy just stays away without even saying anything, as it’ll show that he does not care. It’s better if you can just say: ‘Look, honey, I know you are mad with me, and you are still mad at this moment. I’ll stay away from you for the next few days until you feel better.”
113) “I like the guy with an attitude, who looks and behaves very cool and coldly, but whose heart is very warm, generous, and gracious! If such a guy comes along I’ll definitely fall for him!”
114) “My guy is quite plump! Why do I fall for him? I guess he’s a lot more honest, trustworthy, and caring than those handsome ones. Do you think I’ll feel secure with those handsome guys? I wouldn’t! Such guys usually have a long waiting list of girls waiting for them and I definitely wouldn’t want to be in the queue. Security and commitment is very important to me. If you know you are not going to be committed or serious about this relationship, stay away from me. I don’t want to get dumped by you one day.”
115) “We girls tend to think a lot, a lot, unlike guys. We can’t help it. We often think about how other people are looking at us, whether they like us doing things in certain ways, whether they prefer us dressing in that way, and so on and so forth. So, it would seem like we tend to question and nag a lot. So, please be understanding and be patient with me if you want to be with me. Many times, I would need a lot of confirmation and answers from you just to convince me. You’ll have to bear with me, and accept me for the way I am if you want me to be your mate!”
116) “As the guy I love has to constantly work overseas, I need him to give me a call every evening. It’s not that I’m possessive, and I don’t want to admit I am! But I need to feel secure, that he’s still there, remembering me and thinking about me.”
117) “I like the fact that guys are not emotional. They don’t get jealous of other men easily. And they don’t gossip about their male friends. But, women tend to get jealous very easily, and they love to gossip about other people to their female friends.”
118) “What I like most about my man is his self discipline to reach for his personal goals no matter the difficulties or obstacles (whether it comes from family or work), while at the same time he’s attentive, caring and kind to me and our children.”
119) “I love hugs by a pair of strong arms and hands, it gives me a sense of security and forever!”
120) “The man who can attract me will be the one who knows how to make me happy. And he has to make the effort to find out, not what he thinks or believes will make me happy, but what exactly will make me happy. It moves me when I see him trying and failing, but keeps trying anyway simply because he believes I’m the one he wants to be with all his life.”