41) “I like you to pamper me without my realizing that I’m too demanding.”
42) “I’m most turned off when you cannot decide what to do and where to go for our date, or even appear indecisive! Come on, you are a man! I want to know I can depend on you, that you can make the right and best decisions for all of us here. But, you are the sweetest if you make your decisions only after finding out what my needs are, what I like, and what turns me on. Yah I know you are not a mind reader or a psychic, at least, you try and you make an effort!”
43) “When both us communicate, I want you to be involved as well. I don’t want you to just consent with what I say just to please me. Please, if you do it I’ll feel there’s something very wrong with me and I don’t like feeling that way! Cut all those pretenses. If you are not happy, say so. If you are happy, let me know. I prefer you to be honest, truthful and straightforward, with tact!”
44) “I am not a man, and I will never be! I will forever be different from you, and think in a different way from you, and you will never be a woman too! If you want me, accept me for who I am. If you desire to be with me, accept me for who I am! It is your acceptance of me for who I am that I can and will do my very best to make this relationship work. But if you cannot accept me for who I am, and expect me to change (to what you want me to be), then sooner or later I will break down, and our relationship will too break down!”
45) “Let me have a life of my own, and trust me! If I do not want to be with you I will go away. So for as long as I am with you, trust me that I like you, that I too want to be with you! Yes, I will be very playful outside at times, life is a long journey with many experiences to be experienced and learnt. When I have learnt all I can, when I have experienced enough, I will eventually come home.”
46) “I always believe in this saying ‘Absence makes the heart grows fonder.’ I will miss you if you do not cling to me like a sticky glue!”
47) “I will never grow tired of hearing my man says ‘I love you!’ He’s best when he can come out with many different, fun, and creative ways of telling me that he loves me!”
48) “I like the way my man feed me with his stick of fish balls; I’ll have one piece, and he’ll finish the other piece. There’s a message here. It tells me something, that he’s interested in me!”
49) “I like him to be a real man, one who is able to speak up for me when I’m being bullied, protect me from dangers, save me from embarrassing situation, and provide me shelters when I need it.”
50) “I’m attracted to the man who can also be a good father. Such a man needs to be considerate, caring, and responsible.”
51) “I’m attracted to my man because of the way he treats his pet puppy. He loves him, takes good care of him, walks him every day and gives him good food. Doesn’t it say something about his character? He’s such a loving and caring person. Well, such a man is hard to find!”
52) “I’m attracted to the man who can be sensitive to my needs. I’m a rather sensitive and possessive person, so if he wants me he has to know that I need him to call me every evening, even if it’s just to say hi. Don’t ask me why, but if he wants me and loves me, he has to know my needs and wants. It just gives me a peace of mind if he can just call, or even text a message. It’s not time consuming or difficult isn’t it? If he has the heart he will do it.”
53) “I would fall in love with the man who is willing to share life together with me!”
54) “I love excitement, entertainment, and fun! So, share with me all the challenges, excitement, gossips and changes that are occurring in your workplace or your life. You need not have to tell me everything if you do not want to. But I like to feel I’m involved, that you like me listening to you, that you tell me because you value my opinions and feedback, and that you value my presence!
55) “Make me feel important. It’s actually easy to accomplish this if you want to attract me. Ask me about my interests, my likes and dislikes. Ask me to participate in your project. Ask me to give a little helping hand and show that you trust me and have confidence in me. Pamper me at times. All these would make me feel I’m the most important person in your life.”
56) “Who will I be attracted to if I’m in a room of many men? Well, it all depends. If all men are fighting to talk loudly and noisily at the same time, I think I’ll be attracted to the one man who sits quietly at a corner and deep in thought. Why? Because he stands out. That’s why. Unknowingly, he has ignited in me a curiosity about him, a need to kill my curiosity, a desire to know more about him. I’ll have my attention on him instead.”
57) “I’m attracted to my man because he didn’t try so hard to woo me!”
58) “I think I will fall for you if you can just let me talk myself into liking you. You cannot make another person like you, that’s one of the basic truth in life. But basically, I’m attracted to the man who can still be himself, like an indestructible mountain, whether he knows I like him or not. For this person, there’s something about him which other guys lack, a mystique, like an indestructible diamond.”
59) “I’m turned off instantly by the guy who loses all his confidence, becomes like a cry baby, and even thinks that the world has come to the end, when I tell him I do not like him. Come on, you are a guy, please. Surely you would not have given up so easily!”
60) “I think the guy who woos me has to be very, very, very thick skinned if he wants to win me over. Hey, I do not wish to appear I’m easily attainable too! That would have given him an easy ride isn’t it?”