61) “My mum used to tell me that if there’s a guy interested in me I have to be aware that I do not give in to him too easily. Too bad, guys, but you really have to make a sincere effort and preserve to show me that you are the right man for me. I always believe if any thing is too easily available and attainable, it’ll lose its value instantly too! So, do not blame me if at times I sounded harsh, cold, and unfeeling. As a girl, I want to make sure I take the right step in choosing you.”
62) “My man knows how I would like him to behave and he gives it to me! That attracts me to him. I never know I’m so sensitive to touches and hugs until I meet him. He knows I have a certain liking for him, and one day he just takes his chances and gives me kisses from behind my back on my necks and ears. That literally blows me away! There’s another guy who’s interested in me, but he’s very reserved and too quiet, too gentlemanly. Indeed, I must say he’ll make a good husband, but he doesn’t turn me on, and there’s really no chemistry. So to this day, that first guy is still the one I want because he’s the only one who knows what I want!”
63) “If I say I do not need help, what I really want is I need some help! The guy who most attracts me is the guy who can help me solve my problems even without my asking for it, and he is so cool he asks and expects nothing in return. For such a guy, I would fall in love with him!”
64) “I hated it when my man just came home, dumped his laptop bag on the sofa, and went into the room without even popping into the kitchen and asked me how my day was, or gave a hug. Even if he’s dead tired he can just come in and say hi, at least, he should care enough to let me know his presence!”
65) “Many times, I just want my man to listen to me and what I have to say. He needs not have to understand what’s going on or providing any help if he’s incapable of doing so. In many cases, I only love his being present, that’s all. Sometimes he can get so caught up in trying to come out with a solution to my troubles and problems that he irritates me without knowing and realizing it! He’ll end up siding with the colleague whom I’m not on good terms with, making me feel as if I’m in the wrong or making the wrong judgment. Hey, I want you to make me feel I’m right even if in reality it’s not! So, without knowing the truth in reality, I would prefer you to just shut up and listen.”
66) “I like you to make me feel I’m making the right decisions, the right judgment, having the right sentiments and feelings. In short, don’t make me look and feel bad. Side with me, even if you feel like I’m in the wrong!”
67) “Sometimes I want you to help, sometimes I do not really want you to help, as when you do you often end up saying the wrongs things, can’t get what I really mean, or misinterpreted . If you are not sure, just appear interested, listen and relax. This is all I ask of you”
68) “The guy who can attract me be some one who is too quiet and reserved. Being quiet and nice will not make me fall for him, except that I will draw the conclusion that he will be a nice guy, a nice friend, that’s all. It’s what he does that tells me more of his character, and is more convincing. For example if he keeps a pet and lovingly hugs his pet, I know he’s a caring and loving person. If he brings me out sailing and shows me he loves the sun, water and sea, I know he’s an outgoing person who is always cheery, and fun to be with! If he does volunteer work and invites me to assist him in coaching some intellectually disabled kids in swimming, I know he’s a compassionate man with a good heart!”
69) “I will be attracted to the guy who does things differently!”
70) “My man keeps putting romance off to the weekends. Every day for five days of the week he just comes home, eat, and sleep, and shoot off for work early in the morning the next day. Why can’t he be the way he is when he’s dating me? I would love him to be romantic seven days a week! Is it a difficult thing to do? What I want is only a few minutes of his attention!”
71) “I love your cuddling and snuggling! I like the feelings of closeness and togetherness, but It’s not only about the feelings, it’s because you show that you want it too and that you take time off your busy schedule for it. That’s important to me!”
72) “I like him to talk to me at breakfast, not at me!”
73) “I lost confidence in him when he keeps forgetting our anniversaries and even my birthday!”
74) “I do not need expensive gifts from you to make me happy. If you can just text me or write me the following passionate words I’ll be on clouds nine! ‘You are my soulmate!’, ‘You are the best.’, ‘Grow old with me.’”
75) “I like the way he is so eager to see me, to hear from me, to touch me, to say sweet words to me, during the time when he’s dating me. If only he will continue to win my love and affection all over again and again even after we are married! You know, I’ll never be tired of it!”
76) “For my man to keep me by his side, he needs to show me that he needs me!”
77) “After a fight with my man, we stay away from each other to avoid further fights and arguments. I may look cold, unfeeling, and arrogant, but secretly I still care about him, I still miss him a lot, even if I do not show it on my face or even say it out loud. I’m disappointed with myself too for failing to resolve any misunderstandings we may have. I do feel bad about the fighting too.”
78) “I love the little gestures my husband give to show his consideration and care for him, such as giving up his seat for him on the train, walking me home before leaving for somewhere else). You know, such a man is so rare nowadays. Many men just take women for granted after they won her over.”
79) “How to say it? I’m attracted to the guy who is strong willed, yet gentle and considerate, at the same time. Such guys are hard to come by!”
80) “When a guy treats me like a lady, I cannot help but be attracted to him. It turns me off when a guy is hesitant about opening the door for me or walking me to the door. He’s the best when he makes an effort, and expects nothing in return. How should I put it? This guy is not just trying to do something for me, rather, he’s trying to be someone to me. He’s different from other guys, and I can sense his inner strength. He’s mature and he’s unafraid.”