21) “If I spotted my own photo in my man’s wallet, and he even made it into a photo card with some cute designs round it, I would be secretly pleased and flattered that I’ve a special place in his heart, even if I may never let him know!”
22) “Just because a guy captures my heart, he shouldn’t get so comfortable with this relationship that he gives up dating and romancing me anymore! I would feel like I’ve become a used book on his dusty bookshelf!”
23) “Today on my birthday I expected another hand-made card from him. But, to my surprise he created a powerpoint with heart-warming music in the background! It doesn’t cost a penny to do this, but it definitely is time consuming to make all these! Wow, I just felt that I’m falling in love with him all over again.”
24) “I love to get surprises from him! Or anything that he does out of the ordinary…”
25) “I like the guy who will pamper me and only me forever!”
26) “I think he’s romantic when he gives me his precious time, time he would not even give to his parents!”
27) “I’m attracted to him when he presented me with his artist’s sketch of me using pencil. I’m thinking ‘well, no other men would waste time on this!’ It’s now my treasured possession. He really put his whole heart into doing it.”
28) “I love hugs or simply a light touch, whether it’s to show his encouragement, his affection, his support, or even his passion for me.”
29) “I cannot tolerate a guy who talks too much and does not know when and how to stop, even when hints are given! If he’s more concerned with how he’s doing than how I’m doing, it’s a big, big turnoff!”
30) “I’m turned off when a not-so-confident guy try to woo me. It will all show up in his eyes, his manners, his speech, his attitude, his habits and his behaviors. I prefer to be with a more cheery and confident guy, who knows what he wants and what he’s doing. Such a guy has more magnetism than those who don’t!”
31) “I’m attracted to the guy who’s more daring, more adventurous – some one who’s not afraid to try new things and challenges. A gentleman would be good, but if he watches his manners and treats me too nicely and too extremely I’m not attracted to him. Basically I’m a very quiet girl, and I think life would be very boring and monotonous if my mate is also some one who is quiet and unadventurous. There’s just something missing right here. So, that guy who can simply stir my emotions and feelings, and challenges me to new ways of thinking and doing things is likely the one who can win me over.”
32) “I like my mate to say exactly what he wants and mean it up front. If you are not pleased nor if you are angry about something, don’t vent and expect me to know what is wrong. I can’t do mind reading too!”
33) “I like my mate to call me his bribe even if we are married! I can just get this feeling that he’s loving me every day!”
34) “He begins to expect me to give in to his demands and do whatever he wants me to do after our marriage. I don’t like the idea that he’s now treating me like his “wife”, I’m not proud of it anymore. It would be so nice if he can still treat me like his girlfriend! You know, I simply like the feeling that he doesn’t really know everything about me and he’s constantly wooing me.”
35) “If I seem quiet, not in my usual self, and with a little worry look on my face, I would like you to come up and just ask me what is it all about and what you can do, without even needing me to ask you to do it.”
36) “I’ll like my mate to praise me for something good I have done, whether it’s the new dish I’m making, or whether it’s a bright idea I’ve some out with.”
37) “If you mean no, says no. Don’t beat about the bush, or try to please me by saying things which you do not really mean. I can detect that in your voice, your eyes, and your body language. I’m not impressed with that.”
38) “I love him to show me appreciation for what I have done for him. Even better, compliment me whenever he can.”
39) “Don’t criticize me if I have done something wrong. Try to make me see your point, or the benefits of doing things using other ways instead of mine. Don’t make me do something just because you feel it’s the right way and the only way. Many times I will not believe it’s the only way.”
40) “I don’t really understand him. He just keeps doing things which piss me. But still, I want to be with him more than with other guys. I guessed it’s all because of the challenges, the unpredictable attitude and behavior, and the desire to