81) “All that I have found up to now is someone who did something for me just to please me, in expectation of getting something in return, that I would return their call, that I should show that I’m happy to be with them or see them. But this guy (now her husband) is different! I turned him down a year ago. But he preserves, and now I know that he’s the only one who truly loves me as he doesn’t want anything from me!”
82) “I’ll turn him away if he’s rushing things and moving too fast. I like to go slowly, checking him out, knowing more about him and his character before we go steady. If he starts calling every day after our first date, he’ll make me think that he’s desperate, or he has got nothing better to do! And I definitely wouldn’t want to be with a desperate man.”
83) “If any guy wants to capture my heart he has to uncover me as I really am, not as they merely believe or hope that I am.”
84) “I rejected him because he tries too hard to please. The whole thing is just so deliberate! “
85) “He doesn’t try to make an impression. He doesn’t want anything from me. And thus I don’t feel to pressure to response or act in any deliberate way. It’s comfortable being with him. He appears close to me, yet has an air of detachment. He’s just so cool. I can’t help but fall for such a guy!”
86) “He has such an interesting life, is heavily involved in sports, and has a strong belief in his passion. I’m attracted to him because I know that he’s complete and he’s not demanding. He lives life to the fullness, and is free from the need to control me and my life, yet at the same time he wants to be close to me and takes time to share with me all the interesting things about him and his life.”
87) “I’m not too crazy about skinny, tall, and gentlemanly guy. I don’t go after guys with bulky muscles and big biceps too. But I’ll fall for the guy who possesses physical strength, good determination and gentleness, all at the same time.”
88) “It’s important that my man has good physical strength. No it doesn’t that he has to have well defined and big muscles, but that he has to have all the good virtues such as perseverance, strong willed and brave. I’ll feel safe with such a guy as I know that he’ll protect me from dangers!”
89) “The guy I want mustn’t behave like a woman just to please me or attract me!”
90) “What I like about my man is his I-don’t-care attitude! He seems to be able to get away from every thing. The ironical part is, the more he doesn’t care, the more I’m drawn to him!”
91) “There’s an air of detachment in him. He can keep his life and have a relationship! I wish I have half of his attitude, I cannot help but put relationship first! I hope, if he ever gets a chance to read this, that he’ll understand why I crave for his attention and affection at those seemingly untimely hours.”
92) “My man doesn’t seem to care how other people would feel. But I care. And I cannot stop caring and being aware of how other people feel.”
93) “Adventure racing is his passion. It’s just in his blood from his childhood. I fell in love with him for what adventure racing has molded him and for the character he is. But it’s his extreme involvement in that activity that is challenging our relationship right now. He can just leave me and our children unsupported emotionally and financially and go for his races. He doesn’t seem to worry, and he keeps it inside of him. One thing is for sure, I’m still attracted to him!”
94) “He’s the only one who will respect and love the people I love – my friends, my family, my working colleagues, and even my pet!”
95) “I fall for him because of his character, and for who he is. He has such a positive outlook in life, does what he feels is right without hesitation, and can just dump things when he feels like it, with no cares, no worries, no further explanations.”
96) “I find you so sweet when you give me that hand-made card decorated with the flowers we planted in our garden! And, you gave it to me on the day when it was no special occasion.”
97) “I fell in love with him when every time he sees me he says ‘Every time I see you, I fall in love with you over and over again!’”
98) “He makes me feel so special when he makes it a point to spend time alone with me, while our kids are with our parents.”
99) “The most special gift I receive is what he creates himself – a CD full of my favorite songs! You know, I have the know-how to create it myself, but he moves me because of the time and effort he puts into it.”
100) “I love it when you says you are receiving your bonus this week and you are going to give both of us a treat!”