161) “When you appear cold, unfeeling, and unresponsive to my trying to relate to you in a loving, romantic, intimate way; my first interpretation would be to think that you do not love me; my second interpretation would be you do not really love me as much as I love you; my third interpretation would be you have some one else in your heart. I have to draw all these conclusions because your pulling away would convince me these are the most probable reasons why you are so distant and cold suddenly. So, whatever my interpretation is, I’ll feel there is something very wrong with me; or that I’m incapable of attracting you and making you happy, and this makes me very frustrated, hurt, disappointment and confused. I want you to be happy, that the last thing I want is to see you frustrated and unhappy yourself too!”
162) “Guys, understand why girls are the way they are when once they have accepted you as their mate or partner. Girls put love and romance first things in their life!”
163) “I do not need your effort or energy to give me your attention. I just need to know, in small gestures, that you appreciate me for who I am – that I’m a girl who puts love first! It’s the little things that counts, and it doesn’t’ have to cost you time, energy or money!”
164) “If I detect that you are unhappy, and that there is a problem in our relationship, understand that it’s difficult for me to just behave as if every thing is all right. I will want to fix it, and see what both of us can do about it to create a more harmonious relationship.”
165) “I will persist in trying to find out how you are feeling when I suspect that you are not happy. It’s because I want to know if it is because I have done something wrong, or that I have made you angry. Bear in mind, that I put my love first; this is why I persist.”
166) “I’m concerned with the state of my relationship with my boyfriend, this is why I often want to talk about feelings with him, it really has nothing to do with being insecure or what.”
167) “He’s always complaining that I’m too controlling and always telling him how to do things. It’s not fair to jump to conclusions about me in this way! What I only need to hear from him are things like “Baby, you are so sweet to want to spend time with me, but can you let me finish my report first? It’s very important to me.”
168) “If I ask my man what’s bothering him because he seems distant, cold, and unresponsive, I would prefer him to let me know: “Honey, I’m thinking about a project I’m going to do with a client soon. I’ll attend to you as soon as my mind is clear okay?”
169) “When men are focused on something, it’s usually one thing at a time, and it can be said that they are really living in another world while in a particular state of mind. If he’s thinking about soccer, you can be sure that all he’s thinking about is soccer for that period of time, and it would exclude you (as well as other women, and this is good news!)”
170) “If I’m trying to get you to talk, to explain, to elaborate further, to make your feelings known, it’s not because I’m bossy, or controlling, or restrictive, or trying to change you, or trying to fix you, it’s because I’m concern that everything is alright.”
171) “If you feel that your guy is responding in an unloving, unromantic and distant way, it’s useful to think that guys have an inner secret chamber where once in a while they have to go in for their own retreat, to recharge, to live out their own fantasies, or even their dreams. No one else is allowed inside, except himself.”
172) “I’m attracted to the guy who can tell me ‘Tell me, how can I be the Number One boyfriend/husband to YOU?’”
173) “Women focused on love and on life at the same time. Men focused on love at one time, and the rest is focused on life – work, achievements, success, career, sports.”
174) “When a girl faces problem, she’ll think of the guy she loves – missing him, wishing he is there by her side, wishing he would give her the support she needs right there and then, thinking his image and face would even uplift her! When a guy faces a problem, he’ll think of the problem – the solutions, the people involved, how it’ll affect him and his loved ones, what’s going to happen, etc, etc, etc.”
175) “When you ask me to focus on my work, my life, my projects, my interests, and not to think of you so much, not to love you like the way I do; you are actually wishing that I’m you! – that I can love you like a man. Guess what, I CAN’T. I’m a woman.”
176) “You know, my thoughtfulness, devotion, consistency, and routine, could easily be mistaken by you are as being controlling, insecure, fearful, dependent, and needy.”
177) “I like to feel that I’m able to contribute to creating a loving and passionate relationship with you. This is why I need to feel that I’m doing something, and that I’m doing my part to make things happen. You can say I get my sense of achievement from all these doings, such as wanting to plan in advance for our date this weekend, desiring to go into all the details into making a party a great success, looking forward to discussing with you our trip this coming holiday, and such likes. You get a sense of achievement and success from planning and completing an important project in your work; in a similar fashion, I get my sense of achievement and success if I can contribute to making my relationship with you long lasting!”
178) “I met my boyfriend of 6 years at a friend’s party. He just came over to me and say Hello, and that’s where our conversation started. He wasn’t any more dashing or bold than other guys in the room, but he was very friendly, to me, as well to other guests in the room. He just struck me as kind of different from the rest, and that’s what I liked about him!”
179) “I like to play the hard-to-get game, well, you can say I’m a very cautious and alert girl, but if you want to win me over, you have to play to win! And, it’s just too bad if you give up too soon!”
180) “When a guy approached me, I’m secretly feeling impressed and happy! But, I will not want to show it all on my face or from my body language! Yes, I’m nervous too, just like him I guessed. If he came off as honest, sincere, and friendly, I’ll be attracted to him!”