Now this is a big area of contention between men and women. Men tend to fall asleep or just totally “crash” right after ejaculation, while women may feel even more tender and connected to their man. If you turn away from your lover and fall asleep right away, you can bet she’ll feel pretty rejected and lonely. So what to do to make the minutes after lovemaking just as sweet and fulfilling as the deed itself?
340) Make it a point to spend a few minutes after sex cuddling your lover. Hold her and tell her how much she means to you and how wonderful it feels to make love with her.
341) Help her clean off by going to the bathroom and soaking a soft washcloth in warm water. Then lightly rub it over her body, concentrating on…well, you probably know where!
342) Sex is a real workout! Cool her down by getting her a cold glass of water from the kitchen.
343) If you’re both sleepy, rearrange the sheets and tuck her in beside you. Spoon her and hold her while you both drift off together.
344) If you’ve made love in the morning or afternoon, tell her to stay put and get her a morning cup of coffee or a midday snack of fruit or tea.
345) Run a bath for the two of you so you can “decompress” in the warm water.
346) Kiss her eyelids, her nose, her cheeks and her forehead.
348) Ask her if she wants another turn! Unlike men, women can have many orgasms in a row, and right after having sex is a time when she is already very turned on. Consider going down on her or helping her orgasm in another way. 347) Go get her robe and help her into it.
349) Tell her again how much you love her!