300) Women tend to wait for the man to make the first move. If she’s not starting something up, it’s not necessarily that she doesn’t want to get physical. She’s probably just not as comfortable being the first one to act.
301) Women will generally speak up if they don’t want you to get physical. If you make your move and she responds by pressing up to you and doesn’t say no, you’re good to go. But if she stiffens or says she wants you to stop, stop right away!
302) On a similar note, some women may consent to sex before they are ready, because they are scared the man will leave if they don’t. If you feel any resistant, don’t push her. It will make the sex better when she’s really ready for it.
303) Before a sexual encounter, make sure you are clean, well-groomed and neatly dressed. Chances are a woman will not be as attracted to you if you look sloppy.
304) Women do not equate sex with love the same way men tend to. If she doesn’t want to have sex with you right away, it’s NOT a rejection of you. It’s just that she does not feel ready to move on to that step right now.
305) Set the mood earlier in the day by sending her an email or making a phone call telling her what you want to do to her later that night. It will get her thinking about it all day.
306) As I said before, women may not respond as immediately to pornography as men, because they are less visually stimulated than men. But watching an erotic movie or reading an erotic book just may do the trick.
307) Women love a long hot bath, and it will be even more erotic if you soap her up and wash her hair.
308) Women need affection before sex—start by showing her that you like her before you make love to her.
309) Try eating some foods that are known to have aphrodisiac qualities. For instance, serve oysters, food that’s spiced with cayenne pepper, celery, or a sweet, juicy peach.
310) Chocolate is also a very romantic food. Start off the night with a sensual pot of chocolate fondue—and as things get more intense, you can even dribble some on yourself!
311) Don’t just let her feed herself—hold a strawberry to her mouth and let her chew, dribbling the juice all over your fingers. Then let her lick it off.
312) Women need to be kissed and hugged before you start getting more physically serious. Always start off a love-making session with “making out.”
313) Women crave intimacy as part of sex—make her feel close to you by talking to her, touching her, and sharing your thoughts.
314) Giving your lover a long, relaxing massage can be a great prelude to sex because it shows that your focus is on her.
315) Women actually get sexually aroused as a result of displays of affection and intimacy, and not as much from actual physical stimulation.
316) Women also need some foreplay before intercourse begins. Don’t get right to the main event; lead up to it slowly.
317) Setting the scene can help make things progress more smoothly. If you try to make love in a dirty room with all the lights on, that can be a turn-off. Before the big night, clean up, vacuum, light some scented candles, dim the lights, and play some soft music.
318) Pretend you’re both back in high school and spend an hour “necking” in the back of your car when you get home from dinner before heading into the house.
319) Bring her flowers. You could even sprinkle flower petals on the bed for an extra-special touch. Never underestimate the power of romantic gestures.
So now you’ve set the scene and it’s time for the main event. But what if your sex life has been rather unfulfilling of late? Well, don’t fret. There are plenty of things you can do to bring the spark back into your love-making.